How to Keep Long Distance Friendships Thriving.
Transitioning into adulthood comes with changes - some we like and some we don’t.
Among the more painful pills to swallow is having to accept long distance relationships when it comes to your friendships. If you’re blessed to live in the same city as your college BFFS or the same group of girls you’ve grown up with - treasure this. But, for those of us we aren’t as lucky, here are some ways to keep your relationships thriving.
Understand Where You Both Are
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During this transition, it can feel overwhelming when trying to balance your time, and as a result, some relationships might take a backseat. When it comes to your friendships, you need to be transparent about where you are mentally and what you've got on your plate. Establishing how often you want to communicate sets boundaries and allows you both to be on the same page. If that means talking weekly instead of daily, make that known.
Plan Trips to See Each Other
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There is nothing like seeing all of your best friends in one location to hang and enjoy each other’s time. When you plan trips, you’re letting them know how much you genuinely care about them. Plus, girl’s trips are the perfect way to catch up and spend some quality time amidst your busy schedule!
Here are some suggestions to get you brainstorming.
Get Old Fashioned
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How often do you send physical reminders that you miss someone? The answer is probably slim, and that's okay - in a day and age where everything is digital, it's no surprise. But, going the extra mile can mean more than you know. Take time to send letters or even gifts that make you think about them — the more creative, the better.
Click here to see some gift ideas to send to your friends.
Create Traditions
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Start a book club with weekly discussions, celebrate your friendaversary date, pick a series to watch together- create activities that you all can get excited to do.
E Is For Effort
It's just that simple- if you're both putting in an active effort towards keeping the friendship evolving, it will. Honoring sisterhood will
Without this last point, none of this will work. Make sure you both are putting forth effort towards keeping the friendship evolving. Without both parties making an effort, friendships can be ruined over misunderstandings and miscommunication. That's why it's so important to communicate, support, check-in, and uplift each other. Make sure you're letting your tribe know how much you love them by showing them!
What are some ways you keep in touch with your friends?
Warmly,
J’Taime.
